The Way Of Living

How to Find the Perfect Job

2010-12-10T11:29:00.000-08:00

1. Take a career personality quiz to determine what job would be perfect for you

2. Develop a cover letter and resume based on your perfect job. Highlight your strong points and experience.

3. Talk to friends and family members to see if they are aware of any openings of jobs that pertain to your perfect job.

4. Sign up on Internet career job listings that will email you when a job matches your profile

5. Go to job fairs that pertain to your perfect job. Job fairs are a great way to meet potential employers face to face

How to Achieve Success

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1. Set clear long-term and short-term goals. Make sure that you're motivated by the goals you've set for yourself

2. Stay focused on your goals once you've set them

3. Overcome obstacles. No one ever said that reaching your goals and obtaining success was easy.

4. Approach your goals and dreams with a positive attitude.

5. Be flexible and creative. And take care of your mind and body.

How to Express Your Love ! @@ !

2010-12-08T12:30:00.000-08:00

1. Show appreciation. Everyone like to be told that you appreciate them. Tell them that you appreciate to take care of you

2. Show affection. A hug or a literal pat on the back is a way of showing love.

3. Give gifts. Give them one that they like. However, everyone will be very happy if you give them a gift

4. Spend time with them. One of the things that we often forget to give a loved one is time. Give them the gift of your time.

How to Mend a Broken Heart < / 3

2010-12-07T13:52:00.000-08:00

1. Survive! Give yourself permission to mourn. Call in sick at work, sleep all day, eat too much ice cream, sob

2. Congratulate yourself for being human: It is only when you open yourself to love that your heart can break.

3. Develop and repeat a helpful mantra, such as "This too shall pass" or "I will survive".

4. Reach out to a close friend or family. It helps to share your thoughts with others.

5. Watch a movie to distract yourself. Choose a comedy that has cheered you up in the past.

6. All you can do is to take your time busy! MOVE ON!

How to Flirt Via Text Message \m/

2010-12-05T16:47:00.000-08:00

1. The first text you send should be purely value-giving

1a. Meaning, it should be short, humorous/playful/flirty, and most importantly NOT REQUIRE A RESPONSE.

2. Convey emotion like ;-P emoticons, xoxo, to communicate what would normally come across via tonality or facial expressions.

3. Exaggerate experience. See the difference between 3a and 3b!

3a. "yeah I had a sandwich, it was alright"

3b. "I've just had the world's most glorious sandwich, crafted by the hand of god ;-)"

4. Touch on lots of different subject, be random. Never feel obliged to address a specific subject or conversational thread

5. Know the power of not responding.

5a. If s/he sends me a predictable/boring/useless text, simply not responding can be incredibly powerful.

6. Text only when you are in a happy, good mood. Do not text when needing validation or lonely

7. Follow questions with a playful changing of the subject.

7a. Any time you're asking a question, follow it up with a flirty statement.

7b. Example: "Are you around Thursday night? I know those dance club......"

8. Girls love receiving dirty texts just as much as guys do. Be cautious when sending these before you've hooked up though.

9. Get to the point. What can be said in 5 words needn't be said in 10.

10. Have Fun! Send texts because they amuse you, not to elicit a certain response.

11. If you're texting only to set up a date, YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG!

12. Make it fun, express your personality and above all, AMUSE YOURSELF.

How to Know If a Girl Likes You :P

2010-12-05T16:38:00.000-08:00

1. Talk to her. See how she responds

1a. Quick, clipped responses mean she is not interested.

1b. But, if she gives long answers and asks you questions in response this is a good sign.

2. Catching your eye and quickly looking away, shy glances every now and again or consistent eye contact are good signs.

3. Observe how she is sitting and her body language

3a. If she touches you, or doesn't move away when you accidentally brush up against her she may like you.

4. Detect signs of mimicking. This is an unconscious thing that girls and guys do when they are interested

4a. Good examples are when you take a drink and then so does she, or you sit back in your chair and she follows.

5. Tell amusing stories and see if she laughs, even when you aren't being very funny. This is a good sign

6. Pay attention to how she reacts when you talk to other girls.

6a. Acting jealous, becoming quiet or trying to get close to you are reactions that mean she likes you.

7. Tease her and see if she teases you back. This carryover from grade school works on grown-ups, too

How to Quit Smoking Today and Forever \m/

2010-12-05T16:34:00.000-08:00

1. Decide on a day when you are going to quit smoking.

2. Avoid hanging around people who smoke as much as possible

3. Clean away all traces of smoking and nicotine from your home with a good spring cleaning

4. Throw away all ashtray, smokes, lighters, and anything else that promotes or reminds you of smoking

5. Nicotine Gum works like the nicotine patch. The nicotine gum let you slowly walk down from the nicotine.

6. See your doctor. Speaking with your doctor can help stop smoking

7. An exciting alternative to cigarettes:

How to Get Someone to Enjoy Flirting With You :D

2010-12-05T16:31:00.000-08:00

1. 1st rule about flirting: Don't have expectations! Expectations will dull your enjoyment and your desire.

2. Always be approachable, friendly and warm in your appearance. Be well dress, but sexy in your attire.

3. Be confident, witty and knowledgeable, as it will only keep them coming back.

4. Let your choice of words have a humorous effect, because we all like humor and we will come back for more.

5. Establish common interest, so that you will always have information to share and talk about

How to Know if Someone Is Lying :@

2010-12-05T16:28:00.000-08:00

1. Look for body language that might indicate someone is lying, such as not looking you in the eye when speaking to you.

2. Listen for inconsistencies in what the person tells you, such as different stories on different days

3. Extreme defensiveness could mean that he or she is trying to hide something

4. Notice if the person accuses you of lying or being deceitful when you really haven't been

5. Listen to your gut and intuition. You may just know someone is lying.

HowTo Know If a Guy Likes You :)

2010-12-05T16:24:00.000-08:00

1. Take notice of how many times he looks at you. Do you catch his eye every time you glance at him?

1a. If he is looking at you frequently and flashes his pearly whites when you look at him, there is definitely some interest on his part.

1b. A quick turn of his head when you've caught him looking at you is also a good sign.

2. Check with your friends. Guys often take a greater interest in a girl's friends as a way to get closer to her

3. Don't be offended if he is teasing or making fun of you. Guys are funny this way

4. Take a step into a guy's personal space

4a. If he likes you, he will welcome this closeness with you.

4b. If he backs away, this is a definite sign that he is not interested in a relationship with you.

5. Ask him out on a date. If he accepts, you'll know he is interested.

5. Think back on conversations you have had with him. Does he remember the little things that you said?

6. Ask him. If all else fails, let him know your feelings. After you have shared yours, ask him how he feels about you

How to Know if Someone Likes You Romantically ;)

2010-12-05T16:18:00.000-08:00

1. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question. Does this person show a special interest in having a convo ?

2. Is this person "accidentally" running into you in places where he or she knows you will be, such as at your desk ?

3. Make a note if he or she mentions future plans to spend time with you.

4. Canceling other plans in order to be with you longer, or not finding excuses to leave, could be a sign of interest.

5. Observe how the person acts around your friends - he or she might be extra friendly to your closest pals for a reason.

6. Has he or she been calling for random reasons, such as, "Are you hungry?" etc.

#Its All Depends On your Behavior :)